Re: Hello
Submitted by Mark on December 21 1999 at 21:39:02
In reply to Hello Submitted by Ender on December 20 1999 at 00:07:24
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Welcome to CBF, Ender. I'm glad you posted. I hope you'll read some more here. I'm a 38 yo BLer, and a virgin too. Actually, I thought the portrayal of the gay couple in "Big Daddy" was really condescending. They were portrayed as silly and effeminate, not in a positive way--sort of the way blacks were portrayed in the 40s and 50s. There are so many things we don't know about gender and sexuality. The Bible says nothing about gender identity or sexual orientation, only sexual behavior. Regardless of whether it turns out to be psychological illness or just natural variation, saying one's identity or orientation is due to sinfulness is similar to the past practice of blaming and condemning those with physical illnesses. At this point, both secular and Christian counselors are at a loss trying to deal with gender identity or BL-orientation issues. They're only now learning how to deal with homosexuality. Any boylover who wants to lead a Christian life should have absolutely NO contact with boys. I will stay away from boys as soon as straight men stay away from all women they are not married to. It is just as tempting for straight men to be around women as it is for me to be around boys. As Bach and Chris have said, we have had many serious discussions here. But it gets pretty dull if that's all it is. I hope you'll join in our discussions. Mark |