Hi DJ: You haven't heard from me yet. I've been away for the holidays. Anyway, from a completely different perspective (Christian/female/heterosexual), I can tell you that many people in your life see your great qualities, (some of which come from being a BLer). My friend is a BLer and I love him dearly. Being a BLer is not all of who you are, I'm sure. And yes, it is a struggle. I won't particularly quote scripture in my posts. There are others here who do that much better. I do truly live my Christian faith as best I am able and can share that. I care for my BLer as much as he will let me. Don't forget to look to those around you to give you strength. |