Yes Mark, It's so true that interacting with real ones (on summer camps and so on) reduces the fantasy. It's because sexual fantasy is a mechanism of the mind to cope with lack of real intimacy in life. But when there is real intimacy, or even just ordinary social interaction, we are more content, even if we don't get what we imagine in our fantasies! In fact, fantasy is always an exaggeration of what we really need. With love, Jules |