Hi - I guess I would need a bit more information to understand HOW someone else can keep you in debt. If you can share more details it would really help. From the way you are describing things it sounds like you are bound in a sexual relationship that you THINK you cannot get out of. This is wrong. If you are being held against your will or blackmailed you need to call the police. If you are an emotional or sexual prisoner of this man, you need to do two things: a) Read the story of Exodus (particularly chapter 3). Find similarities between your situation and that of the Israelites. Figure out what Moses had to think about, consider and trust in when God called him. a) Pray like crazy for the strength and courage to leave your sitatuion. b) Leave. I will be prayed for you, brother. Keep us posted. You are not alone. Your bro in Christ, Ben |