Hello Lane, You asked the question "If it feels right, how could it be wrong?" We've all asked that question and then felt the pain of reality. Let's face it, we've all felt like punching out the boss or co-worker, eating a whole box of doughnuts, not going to work or school etc... Does that make these things the right things to do? Rational thought is not always the best guide to what to do and not do either. Human history has proved that many times. That's why many turn to something greater than themselves, i.e., Jesus. I think love for someone is the hardest thing to deny. You have my sympathy and prayers on that. In Christ, Jack |