Hi Forgiven, I can understand your embarrassment at being 'outed' in that way! Do you think it will have any long term effects, either positive or negative? Do you think anyone in the group will ever talk to you about it (or have they already!) or will no-one because they've been told not to tell anyone outside the group? Is there anyone in the group that you want to talk to about it? When I chose to share in a group, it was as "I've always struggled with my sexuality", and that's all. I'm really not worried about whether people think that means I'm gay, or BL, or bi, or anything else. If they're not aware of all the distinctions anyway, why should it matter? With love in Christ, Jules |