Thanks for calling by, BUD. We're not combustible, though. The 'blessing' that 'Forgiven' referred to was that of caring for boys in a non-sexual way. The great majority of the regular posters here are committed to avoiding sexual contact with minors. This is a forum where we can talk about our weaknesses in this area and help each other to stick to what we believe is right. Hope that helps. With love, Jules |