I'm not worthy........
Submitted by Don on April 10 2000 02:07:46
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This is such a cool place. I'm not sure if I'm a boylover or not any more but I feel such a kinship with you all here that I come by every day. I have seen several posts lately by folks feeling a lot of pain over their attraction to boys. May I offer a suggestion...... Get involved. I have found that the more I get involved in the lives of real live boys the less my sexual attraction becomes. Several posters here bemoan the existence of their sexual attraction to boys while understanding that their heartfelt love for boys is a wonderful thing. I must say that the more I reach out to boys that don't have a positive male role model (and there are lot's of them out there) the happier I have become. At the same time my sexual attraction to boys has diminished to the point where I rarely even think about it. God has blessed me with lot's of YF's to be a father in Christ to and I'm sure there are many more on the way. These relationships mean the world to me and I can see my friendship making an impact on the lives of these boys....it's a great feeling. God has called boylovers to set aside their sexual desire and move actively about the lost and hurting boys of this world. If your heart aches for a relationship with a boy.....that's God's way of telling you to reach out and bond with a kid that has no one to love him....once the kid trusts you it's easy to share the gospel with him. If you need ideas about how to reach out to boys or want to know more about my experiences with kids, feel free to e-mail me. Don |
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