That's a tough question, choirboy. I really don't know what the best advice is. I'm not married myself. I know some boylovers are married and have told their wives, and the wives have taken it well and continue to love them wholeheartedly. Others seem to take the attitude "what they don't know won't hurt them". I think if I were married, I want my wife to know everything about me, including the BL part. But in practice I don't know what I'd do. Good luck and God bless while you make your decisions on what to do. F.O.D. |