Re: Someone to talk with

Hi Claire - Thanks for coming by. It continues to fascinate me how difficult it is for people to believe that pedophiles exist who do not actually act upon their attraction. Perhaps this is because, other than a few studies in the Netherlands, the only study of pedophilia has been on convicted child molesters or victims of abuse. The data has been horribly skewed towards the characteristics of pedophilia which have surrounded abuse, rather than love and attraction. Anyway, I have been studied quite a few times in the past (annonymously on the web, that is) and I'd be happy to answer questions online. I have nothing to hide about my attraction or my actions (since I have remained celibate my entire life). I can tell you with absolute certainty that numerous boylovers who are actually attracted to boys do not act upon their desires. You are not alone. Ben