You don't know either way, and after all it doesn't really matter. You do stand the risk of closing all lines of reasonable communication if you were to suggest that His feelings may not have been orientated the way they suspect. Most people will not understand that you are using this to try and get your point across. Off course this is primarily their problem, but it will make them more convinced in their misconceptions about sexuality and will make it impossible for you to talk to them about this issue. These are things people feel very strongly about and bold statements might just scare them away if they are not ready for it yet... -zip- |