Re: Desperately Needing Advice
Submitted by Huck Finn on May 27 2000 13:20:36
In reply to Desperately Needing Advice submitted by Ben on May 27 2000 09:27:56
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God put Jennifer in your life for a reason... what that is, who knows. But I can tell you that I am experiencing the same thing. But the woman I speak of is my age (18) and we are falling in love with each other. Something that scares me half to death is if we get married, what will "sex" be like. You know? I mean I really am wondering what I'll do. Will I enjoy it? Will I be wishing something else? But sex is something from God! A gift as it was explained to me. And also a special bond that is made by God to join two people into one being. That's why when you are married, you are joined together. Just like you are one the wedding day. My suggestion is to tell her how YOU feel. If your scared about it, tell her. You don't have to say I'm a BL and I'm afraid of being attracted to your son and not you... tell her you don't know about it. Tell her you've never really had a "SERIOUS" relationship with someone (a woman). My guess is she'll respect that a lot. Tell her if you love her. If you don't, and you think there might be feelings, tell her you think you might have feelings for her. Be honest with her. That's the best way to go... I mean I really hate the saying honesty is the best policy, but it really is. And you know what I think my girl liked most? I told her I wanted God in the middle of our relationship no matter what happens. God Bless you Ben! Huck Finn |
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