Re: confused
Submitted by Bach on May 29 2000 09:24:30
In reply to confused submitted by shonen on May 29 2000 02:20:18
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Hi shonen, Welcome to Christian Boylove Forum. I expect that you will find many friends here who have asked and are asking the same questions that are in your own mind. You said: i need to know how it can be possible to be a boylover and know that it is acceptable with christian beliefs. Well, that really is the key. I spent many really painful nights thrashing this out with myself, and asking "Why God?". Why am I a boylover? How can I be a Christian? Is it possible to be both? Jesus Christ did not condemn people for their feelings. He even said, "Go and sin no more", when he didn't agree with their actions. As a Christian BL, I believe that God knows that I love boys. And my duty, to love God and honor Him, is to live out that love in a way that respects my fellow Christians, boys and my God. For me, that means abstain from any sexual contact with a boy. However, just because I believe that God does not want me to have sex with a boy, it does not mean that I am condemned because of my sexual attraction. Central to the Christian experience is living out God's will for our lives by participating in a discerning Christian community. That's what we're trying to do here at CBF. Welcome to the club! Peace of Christ, Bach |
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