Re: Desperately Needing Advice
Submitted by Oliver on May 31 2000 02:45:17
In reply to Desperately Needing Advice submitted by Ben on May 27 2000 09:27:56
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Hi Ben, Just recently on BC, A thread was posted about BL and mairrage. I don't know how much Christain influence comes from this, but I do think that some of the mairried boylovers who contributed to the thread have some real points about the lifestyle that combines mairrage and BL. I believe it is possible to be mairried and be a BL. I trust that beause I trust God. He blessed the bond of mairrage before sin enetred the world. He has blessed us with the gift to love children. Trust God's blessings and you will be blessed, doubt them and they will pass you by. What's the saying, "Opportunity knocks, temptation kicks the door in." It's all a question of faith; keep it and God is faithful too. My own personal experience has kept me socially around women. I had a close friendship at one time that lasted 3 years. We both knew we would never marry eachother because we weren't attracted to eachother. We had an emotional and spiritual bond but so physical chemistry. My own parents divorced because they had a similar relationship but decided to marry despite of it. I do believe I can fall in love because I have experienced one or two of these three attractions with the women I've been friends with, but I do believe it takes all three attractions working together to make for a stable relationship. However, a common love between the two of you might be the exception--ie: Jennifer's son. The Psycology is too subjective to say there is or is not a possibility. It all comes back to that God is the Great Psychologist and anything is possible with Him. Blessings, Oliver |
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