"Should you work with, relate with, or hang out with boys in your AOA?" Of course I should. It's what I was made for. It's just taken me a looooong time to learn to do it properly. "Is it helpful or hurtful? Does it tear you appart or help you stay together?" Over my life, it's done all of the above. But now that I concentrate on how instead of who, I've become more helpful and it provides more of a purpose for me. For more, check out these old posts: http://www.cblf.org/messages/8661.htm http://www.cblf.org/messages/8662.htm http://www.cblf.org/messages/8666.htm http://www.cblf.org/messages/8685.htm ---Ford |