"Sadly for some of us we don't have the freedom to ask 'How can I use this trait?'" At the risk of being totally dense, how can you not have that freedom unless you're incarcerated or forbidden any contact with boys by law? "This is in order to look for ways of providing other sources for what I am looking for in relating to boys." What are you looking for in relating to boys? Of course that's a question I couldn't have given an honest (or at least an accurate) answer to just a couple of years ago. Trying to understand, ---Ford |