Intelligence
Submitted by ChoirBoy on June 17 2000 19:59:45
In reply to close but no cigar... submitted by AKA on June 17 2000 17:49:42
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AKA, Thanks for replying with at least an attempt at intelligence rather than simply asserting your position over and over and leaving it up to the rest of us to "prove" you wrong (especially since your position is not the commonly-held one). You are, of course, entitled to your opinions, misguided though they may be, and I can only hope you cause no harm to anyone else but yourself by standing firm in them. A few clarifications, though. When I talked to my friend who was abused about it, he is the one who explained that it wasn't a need to survive but a desire to be loved and be accepted by someone (especially after just being rejected by his parents) that caused him to want his abusers to adopt him. While some kids may desire sex just for sex, it is my opinion that as a whole, most people are looking for more than just physical gratification with sex. Thus the numerous human relationships that are maintained that according to your philosophy would be pointless and worthless since all they would have to do would be to meet for sex. I think that sex and love are intricately entwined, as evidenced by the societal linking of love with sexual relationships and the common misidentification of lust as love. This is especially true of children, who, unless they have experienced many more things than usual, are still trying to determine their own identity and come to grips with their sexuality. That is the worst time to confuse them by imposing your own sexual desires upon them. While the existence of a power differential does not necessarily imply an abuse of power, they very often go hand in hand. This is why teacher/student sexual relationships are not encouraged. Especially when one of the participants is a child does power tend to be (usually unwittingly) abused. You mentioned how manipulative children often are, and it is precisely that that makes a sexual relationship with them such a dangerous proposition. In order to keep you in their life, they will manipulate you by giving you what they know you want. That is, giving up themselves. Selling themselves, as it were, for your attention. You certainly are an exception to the rule if as a pedophile you continue to have a sexual relationship with a man of 19. Most people attracted to boys are not sexually attracted to men of 19. Even if you are still friends with him but are no longer in a sexual relationship, there must have been a point at which you stopped having sex, and having that acceptance of him withdrawn probably hurt him more than you know. It is obvious that you are hell bent on justifying your at least questionable behavior, and I wouldn't expect anything less. Apparently you have been locked into this lifestyle so long that any challenge to is is a threat to your happiness and peace of mind. So while this will be my final word on the matter, I fully expect you to respond again. But you should know that although you may subject us to more of your mental flattulence in the future, you are merely primally defending the acts that make you feel good. So, I hope and pray for your sake that your stubborn adherence to your delusions of justification don't harm anyone else but yourself, especially not any boys. Have a nice day. ChoirBoy |
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