Hi there blazeofhope, no I certainly do not wish to give anyone here a hard time....that would be the last thing I would want to do. I have been a lifelong BL and feel more kinship with the people here than with almost any other people in the human race.

However, I will not be staying here long. There is little point in talking to closed minds and that is sadly what I find here. "There is none so blind as he who will not see" is very true.

Being a BL is a very difficult and stressful road to travel and we all know that only too well. Today's society has made it even more difficult than in years gone by and being the object of hatred in society is stressful beyond belief. But very sadly, the people on this forum have created this additional stress in their life by attempting to reconcile a dogmatic faith with their natural sexual orientation. And that is so sad because you have all been brainwashed to the point of no return.

Possibly because of childhood upbringing or because of evangelical conversion (both equally effective in brainwashing), the people here have talked themselves into a fanciful set of beliefs which govern their behavior and thinking. And it is so entrenched that I am really wasting my time in trying to do much about it. The power of thought is very great so many of you have used this very positively to provide yourselves with comfort and security and there is nothing I or any other reasonable person can say to alter this.

So I wish you well.....you have surrounded yourselves with walls and cannot even see that the walls are there. So good luck to you all, because to survive this daily conflict you have created will certainly require much good fortune over a lifetime.

Best wishes and goodbye from A Visitor from BC.