Hikaru: At this point, in the year of our Lord 2009, after everything that's happened, and indeed been documented for the benefit of everyone OUTSIDE of the isolated pedo-havens where cognitive distortion is the norm,
your naivete is forced, disingenuous, and, in the great pedophile tradition, utterly kid-centered, at the expense of adult realities. I am posting because I am worried about how that kind of behavior would impact CAT'S disintegrating life, (since he asked!) not whether some "kid" would "like it." If I were Cat's wife, I'd be tempted to hit him in the head with a frying pan for engaging in such an insulting stunt, AT THE VERY MOMENT WHEN he is dumping her. Cat, I love you, man, but it hurts to see you doing something like this. I can only imagine that your wife sees it as adding insult to injury. And trying to get "our" blessing for it, in this circle-jerk of mutually-reinforcing moral imbecility!

Well, I'm forced to be coy, as the cogs are breathing down my neck.

... but the word that comes to mind is the word for when the man in the stable brushes a horse to make his coat all shiny and smooth, and gives him an apple and a lump of sugar. Is that a well-recognized contour, a slippery slide we'd all love to slide down? Yes it is. The key difference being that here at CBLF we spew Bible verses all the way.

Indeed, I got kicked last night for pointing out that pattern to ..... another person in another context. A "well-known," boundary-less and empty-hearted wonder, who was grousing about the demands of his YF's family: "I've been doing so much for that family, recently." "So I guess the family OWES you a little something, then, huh?" But it's not a set-up, OH NO. Nothing abnormal or "pedophile-ish" there. I'm quoting the idea from Plato, as it applies to an active pattern today.

Remember: I'm bitching at you guys IN LOVE: I DON'T want to see any more folks go to prison!

A completely irrelevant quote:

"According to police, XXXXXXX said he initially felt like a father figure for the boy but later the “dynamic changed and turned into, you know, I see him as a lover."

Now there's the pedophile catastrophe in full, moogly-eyed glory! A little self-deception here, a little good intentions there, and BAM! another sex-offender who will never see the light of day again.

You can bet I made copies of that gentleman's last posts, [Edited]

I have a mathematical temperament: if I make a statement, I like to have evidence to back it up. If you challenge my "logic" Hikaru, then I could easily document my points, IF I had permission from the cogs to re-post the posts from [Edited] that make my points clear. A big IF! The cogs, even here, seem to want to make my point for me, which is that there is a certain amount of moral processing which NEEDS TO HAPPEN, and yet CANNOT HAPPEN in this environment, if we are not to lose more people to the system. Instead, here, the value of moral UNaccountability is emphasized and defended. Have it your way, cogs: and watch the consequences in the real world! You can count on me to witness and document. Everything.

This was a confused young guy, and learning about Good, Strong Boundaries in [Edited] could have helped him turn his life around. And that's exactly what he DID NOT GET at [Edited], and I have documentation of the whole thing. You can find the thread yourself by googling, I won't post any links!

C'mon, guys, why not just put an ad up with your picture and address saying "daddyfur and caretaker?" That would save everybody a lot of time.

"Factor in the social norms?" At this point, having studied several thousand years of pedophile antics, I can definitively label the "Eumolpos catastrophe" AS the pedophile norm. Out of one side of your mouth, talk a good game about values and education and chastity. Out of the other, lay on with the gifts, the sugary praise, ("Gee Tommy you're so smart!") and when daddy's asleep, stretch out the inhuman claw and BAM! Suddenly the victim isn't ME anymore, it's HIM. And it hurts a lot less when "I'm" not the victim. Right, guys? Isn't that what this is all about? Finding someone else to play that role, someone whose pain I DON'T HAVE TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR? Who needs Christ's sacrifice, when it's OK for us to pick ANY BOY OFF THE STREET to serve as our sacrificial victim?

---Didaskalos, who is looking froward to a life without internet relationships....

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