I just want you to know that you have a very good point Dakota, and your opinion is equally valid in this scenario. My advice was also based on the fact that he is not married or engaged yet. It could potentially be very freeing to be open and honest from the start.

I think that your opinions and posts are thought through very well. God Bless you for that. :D

Little Tree, whatever you decide, make sure it is thoroughly covered in prayer.

Hikaru