Re: sigh
Submitted by Dakota on 2009-06-26 17:38:20, Friday
In reply to Re: sigh submitted by marc on 2009-06-26 16:37:16, Friday
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All boys will not react the same as you think YOU would react. It's hard to know exactly how you would react untill you are in the situation. If you were a young boy who loved an older man who paid a lot of attention to you and cared about you, would you really be that repulsed if you discovered he was attracted to you? Maybe, maybe not. But remember that you've done nothing to make the boys think you are only paying attention to them because you want something from them. With both of my YFs, I'm pretty sure they knew I was attracted to them, and they weren't repulsed. Both were totally straight. But they allowed a certain amount of cuddling and hugging that they didn't permit with anyone else. (As long as we weren't in public. Then they wouldn't even want me to put my hand on their shoulder, lol.) I wouldn't recommend coming right out and telling them. As long as it may be just a possibility in their minds (it may not be, just saying it might), they won't have to deal with it as much as if you came right out and said "hey, I'm a pedophile. What do you think about that?" But I have also heard about guys who HAVE come out to their YFs with good results. Personally, I wouldn't chance it. You think I'm letting my wishful thinking get the better of me. That's a possibility, but I have 2 examples to the contrary. I think you are letting the disgust you feel for yourself get the better of you. I don't know how to do it, but you really need to start thinking better of yourself. Dakota Dakota |
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