I agree
Submitted by Dakota on 2009-06-27 21:22:55, Saturday
In reply to You are absoutely right, but submitted by Hikaru on 2009-06-27 17:33:37, Saturday
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I wasn't recommending that marc tell his YFs about his attraction, but after re-reading my post I can see how it could seem that way. Marc seems so certain that they would be repulsed by his attraction, that I was merely postulating that IF they knew, I didn't think they would lose their love for him. I believe that many YFs already know or suspect their AF is either a pedophile or gay, but they rarely bring it up. And as long as THEY don't bring it up, I see no reason the adult should. If the adult has no intention of sexing the boy, his attraction isn't really an issue (for the boy at least). So telling him would be putting a burdrn on him he doeasn't need to have. BTW. I like what you said about how everything should be for the boy's benefit and not ours. I agree. I don't think we should overly spoil the boy or let him do whatever he wants. But everything should be for his ultimate benefit. And that, in turn, benefits us. Being loved by a boy is very cool. But I find it just as cool to really love them. That's a huge benefit for us. Dakota |
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