I love it, it's like a Tennessee Williams line. But I don't want to be flippant, I'm sure it's true - I just take it lightly or else I'd have to dig out my own pain and look at that too.

Actually, though, if you read through that wikisposure - dot - com, you'll see that life could be much more painful. Being made a community pariah by a gang of ruthless slanderers is something to be tactically avoided.

Usually, they don't make the effort to approach people through their contact info, though, but it could happen. They always relied on people putting personal information on BL boards that could be googled to find the person's real identity, but most people now are too up on the game to lay out that information. Usually they target admins and people who say they're having sex with kids, but there is one sadist called 'summerbreeze' who just targets some young people who are innocently posting on bl boards. Like my old buddy Lammasu, who you can look up there. He had quite a process to recover from being smeared on that site, even though they never did manage to learn who he was. They nailed him from info he'd posted about himself as a teen - really, they are child abusers. So, life goes on and evil can't be allowed to win at any level, but maintaining the right and good takes vigilance.