ty for your comment

I DO NOT DRINK ALCHAHOL AND I NEVER TAKE DRUGS so that will never happen.
I used the word 'drug' as an analygy thats all - you may of misread :)

He lives with his mum and 'step dad' in waiting his real dad is never on the scene (shame on him !)

Your first point is an excellent one - which i will take onboard - ty v much

blessings