I can see the analogy here but I'm wondering just what the tea and cookies are?

When does sexual desire and admiration become sinful?

How inappropriate is it to think a boy is sexy? I mean, I figure God made them beautiful, gave them sexuality and gave us the capacity to admire them. I don't think I could say that boys are sexy as a result of the fall!! that seems ridiculous to me.

I think it only becomes sin if you invite the boy himself in for tea and cookies with the intent of seducing him.

Blessings
Cat.