I liked this fire analogy SO MUCH that I even shared it with my wife.

I like the honesty that it has... fire is dangerous, powerful, potentially destructive and can get out of control.... it is ALSO one of the most useful and beneficial resources know to man.

To admit that boylove can be dangerous as well as beneficial keeps it in perspective... makes us treat it with respect... and helps us to know that just becuase it CAN hurt... doesn't mean it WILL or it HAS TO or that we have to PUT IT OUT.

Thanks so much
Blessings
Cat.