I pray that God will give you discernment to know the right thing to do at the time you have to do it. He is good at doing that and I believe He will do it for you. My advice (if you want it)...stay as focused on God in prayer as you can be through this time of your life. He will guide you through it. He probably put your Pastor in your life to help you through this (whatever it is) so listen to him and do your best to try his suggestions; but also listen to your own good common sense, too. And don't forget that God's Word is also full of answers to life's problems. Keep coming back here and let us help you as much as we can, too. That's what we are here for. You are in my prayers.