"I myself find (as do other BLs I've spoken to) that real relating with real boys actually makes the focus on looks much less dominating and distracting. When I haven't been around real boys for a season all I tend to think about is sexing, but when I spend some quality time with a boy I care about then genuine love for his happiness and well being dominate and thoughts of sex seem very far away even if I find him very attractive. So, unless you're really struggling to execrcise self-control and see yourself as a danger to boys, I would suggest that your "no boy interaction" policy would have the reverse effect of what you're attempting to acheive."

Agree with you there 100%.