which is after you've admitted you're gay, he comes straight out and asks you whether you find him attractive. I'm not saying there's a right answer, but it's a question I suspect you would be wise to have considered your answer to BEFORE it comes up...

[Actually the WORST scenario is that he makes a serious and unambiguous pass at you. Yes it does happen, despite the ideologically driven belief of some to the contrary. Again worth considering how you would react immediately and subsequently...]