That is exactly what I plan to do tomorrow. I think I can catch him in his office and he is always willing to sit down and talk with me. And I know what you are saying...it might be a really bad thing for me to speak up and defend gays in my church, but I feel so strongly about this. I feel that the church is failing to really reach out to the gay community and I just hate it when people say things out of ignorance. But I will have a talk with my pastor. I'm glad he is also a good friend of mine and that I am also out to him. That will make things quite a bit easier.