One thing I have found is that there is no such thing as the perfect church. There is probably one out there that you will like a lot better than most, but not one is perfect. They are all filled with imperfect people who have lots of problems, whether they want to admit it or not. However, if you are diligent, you will find what you are looking for. I love my church but many times I have been dissatisfied with it. But for the most part I love my church and wouldn't leave it for the world...or unless God had somewhere else for me to go. I hope you find a church that you love as much as I do.