I do agree with you Cat although from experience in this situation your still losing someone who is special to you. But not at all the same as losing a YF that was long term that you where well connected with. I've done some work with boys over the years and you are so right about how you have to guard your heart in those situations. Your advice should be well taken, especially for guys who do a lot of work with boys in that type of environment.

God Bless You

Blaze