For me a YF is a boy for whom I have strong feelings of love and affection... feelings that dominate my mind and heart... AND with whom I have a chance to build a special relationship with such that he comes to feel strong love and affection towards me in return.

Where and how often we see each other and the amount of "freedom" we have to relate to each other are secondary to how we "feel" about each other.

Blessings
Cat.