marc, the people in this society who take the time, trouble and risk to administer and support BL boards are very special people, and we need to take care of them.

You'd be amazed how few comments like that it takes in many cases to burn out a very good hearted person volunteering in a community service like this. Not everyone is equally sensitive and a few of us are outright impervious to curse and imprecation, but in general cussing out well meaning people is not good. If they happen to offend with a comment they make, it's best to assume their good will and to reason with them.