I read your own post the other day, and where as - I am not married, nor do I consider myself 'there' yet, in terms in being ready to marry -

I thought of the term 'damaged sexuality'. I like it. (the term)
Some people, end up gay. And with me, that's totally okay. Some people, are sexually attracted to children, which again - I totally understand. And some people are stuck in the rift between.

I like to explain things like this:
In one of my Metroid games, Samus explores a planet. This planet was all normal and everything - until someone decided to split it's mass in half. A dark copy of the planet was created. Some people where jerked to one side, and some left on the other. In this game, you'd find *objects* that suffered from a 'interdimensional rift' - which existed on neither side.

In between the the sexualities, I feel like, I too - suffer from an interdimensional rift.

I know that might be all cheesy - but I thought it was a neat metaphor.
I think males of all shapes and sizes are beautiful, but never once doubted falling in love with the woman of my dreams, nor understood any of it. I think back, and I was just a child. I made some mistakes, some have a culprit to be blamed, but mostly, I am that said culprit.

I just, wanted to let you know that (in my own, special way) I know what it's like to have a damaged sexuality (not claiming to have one to any even or worse degree). Sometimes I wish it was more simple. I was just gay or something, it stinks to be caught up between the dimensions.