Wow a quick answer. I thought I'd be waiting for it for at least a day :)
>we just do the best we can and live the best way we know how
Certainly. We all do. I meant you obviously have to keep your mind in contol all the time, without looking at boys any longer than for a second, not to mention touching them. Or I'm painting it too dark?
And, of course, many of the people I know will probably kill me with fire if they know I'm a BL - but only if they know it for sure. And you could get the same effect with just a slight suspicion, aren't you?