You are right, now that I think of it when I had a special YF it didn't happen.
But a relationship with a YF doesn't come easy.

I am a leader at a scout troop, and enjoy working with kids, but I cannot form any special bonds with a specific individual as this would make things complicated and there would be those who would raise their eye brows.

However I still get great satisfaction from being with a bunch of kids, although it is hard work. Sometimes when I haven't been to scouts for 2 weeks or more my eyes wonder.