I don't think so. As far as I can see, every Christian is on a journey to become more like Jesus, and part of being like Jesus is to forgive all the wrong that is done to us. For one particular Christian this may be relatively straight forward, for another there is a BIG issue in his life that he finds really hard to forgive over. One of the most crucial steps to becoming a Christian is 'repentance' which means seeking to live as far as much as possible as God would have us live. Not that we're going to achieve this - but it's the target we should always have in mind.

Does that make more sense?