the way i look at it is...that girl is someone's child, just like some boy you 'love' or are infatuated with is also someone's child.

why use them and hurt them to further your ends? are you a person that your yf(s) future and present would be proud of? if this someone YOU can be proud of?

for me, it would make life much easier, especially with my peers, if i got a girlfriend but it just seems too immoral for me. ironic that word, morals, considering i am a pedophile and all.

i am by no means a good person, but for me using people who are emotionally invested in you is something i cant bring myself to participate in.