I also have a question - Is there any fathers of boys (on this site) who consider themselves boy lovers?

I expect the answer to be no, and that all boy lovers are (without them knowing) simply men longing to be fathers. I know I am right, if not, please let me know.

All people have desires and ideas of what they want for the future, and it usually doesn't make sense. Things long term like, "I want to take a journey to India" (why India there are many more convenient and easier places to go to). Or supporting a charity for deaf people (Out of all the charities, why that one). Okay those were a bad examples, but still, isn't that God talking?