Who is to say we do not take responsibility and how can we take responsibility for something we don't know about. If we are doing something wrong than the only way to know is to be told. If he doesn't tells us and leaves things a mystery, than what's the point of trying to follow him anyway and why don't we all just live our lives the way we want and forget about the notion of their being a God as our Father or even our Creator?

He designated himself as a parent and he needs to at least let us know if his parenting is different from what an "average" parent would be like.

Would life be easier if we forget the notion of there being a God and just live life as it is as if we are here not knowing why but just accepting it and not trying to search for some outer force to guide us?