See the wonderful thing about it is, my family knows. In fact Scotty knows, I just think he's confused about what to do about it. I want it to be sexual, I day that because saying anything else would be a big fat lie. But I didn't require our relationship to be that way, nor would I ever try to push it in that direction. Just knowing that I wasn't alone al this time would be a relief. As far as the navy goes I'm giving myself two more weeks before I even take the smallest of actions. Our relationship wouldn't fade. We've been through so much more, time would hardly phase it. But I guess well see, I want to now what our relationship is.