Robert-I isn't trying to trivialize your experiences. Neither am I. But you will probably THINK I am when I say that sometimes you come across like you are the only one who has ever had it pretty rough. Just because you don't know what others have gone thru or see what some are going thru now doesn't mean life is a bowl of cherries for everyone. If you want us all to start a big pity party, we can all post some of the worst times of our life. Will that make what YOU are going thru any easier? No. Most of us wouldn't indulge in such a thing anyway because bringing up all the sordid details of bad times is too painful. And bad times are not the exclusive experience of boylovers either.

I think it's good that you post about what you're going thru, because shared burdens are sometimes a little easier to bear. And I'm certainly NOT trying to say you should just "get over it" or "suck it up." We all know that that's not always possible when life sucks big time. But you really DO need to lose the attitude. For your own sake. Going thru bad times with the attitude that few others have ever or will ever go thru such times as bad as yours just makes it harder for YOU. It just makes it harder for you to deal with. Not to mention that the idea that you're on God's shit list just isn't true.

Dakota