Thanks for your emails.
My yf took the warning quite well, as I had already warned him how some people might consider an adult having had a number of yf,s might well provoke suspicions. I also told him almost as soon as I met him, the details of the many yf,s I have known. It was a good topic of conversation and it helped him open up about the very difficult life he had had.

He says he will definitely send his son to me when he has one!! But if he has a son in 9mths time I will be 85yrs old by the time his son reaches 11. I shall have to bring down my AOA!