how come you don't talk about your yf here?

I just did, didn't I :-)

A more serious reason, though, is that I have only known him a few months, and he is the first YF I have ever had, so this is all pretty new to me. I have not had a lot of opportunity to mention him here before, and don't have a lot of "history" with him to serve as fodder for discussions.

[I do correspond with a BL friend one-on-one, and my YF does come up in conversation there quite often.]

I'm sure I'll mention him more here when it seems appropriate (as it did in this thread).

Blessings,
Rainboy