A boylover with a sexual attraction to a child is one of the worst substitutes for a father

How do figure?

Countless experiences seem to indicate otherwise.

think of the lifetime damage to the boy should you weaken under temptation and have sexual relations with him

What makes you assume all BLs are tempted to have sex with all boys they come into contact with?

Furthermore, what leads you to believe that those who do face such temptations have any problem overcoming it?

Nevertheless, I still agree with you that one should think of the consequences of such actions. But why don't you think about what a positive impact you could have in his life as well? A risk analysis would be incomplete without also examining the positives. Many of us have seen first hand how our relationship with a YF has brought them out of a gloomy place and changed them from sad, scared little boys to happy, confident young men with good self esteem. Aren't you being as ignorant as you accuse others of being if you totally ignore the positives in the same way you accuse others of ignoring the negatives?

If you are a glutton stay away from the bakery

...and starve??

Even your illustration makes no sense.

Why is plain common sense so uncommon

Good question.

we have an enemy, Satan, who loves to destroy our God-given sexuality by tempting us into unnatural sexual activity

If God gave you a gift for helping children and you allowed fear of temptation to render that useless. Guess who won? I'll give you a clue...it's Satan!