My very first post on here about 4 months ago "please help me please tell me"
i asked for advice from members on here regarding my new found special freindship with a certain boy.

The advice i was given was this : (sorry i cant remember who wrote it)

"You could either be heading for becoming a favourite unofficial uncle who's always remembered as one of the highlights of this boy's growing up, or to falling under deep suspicion and suddenly finding that the boy's open arms are receding into the parental shadows, never to be seen again."

well things have grown the last 4 months and as i explained before ,yesterday was a new 'peak' with my yf - he and his brother both called me "Uncle HFJ" .... when he came out with that in front of his mom while he was cuddling me , it blew me away, especially after he had showered me with compliments and affection the previous 2 hours !

so i am happy to say i think i may have become his "uncle" ... how awesome is that to know that you feel wanted appreciated as well as loved by a YF ?