For a moment I thought you were Cat, my apologies.

Okay I never said step 1 leads to step 9, I merely took the worse case scenerio which are excatly the cases I've been discussing right from the start, for me the 5 steps were horrible enough yet there are those of you who argued there may have been no harm in child and parent sexual interaction, as much as you find step 9 disgusting I find step 3, 4, 5 as disgusting as well, the only difference is the levels of gruesomness increase, and for everyone whos accostemed themselves to a particular step finds their own accaptable, which is just plain wrong, I dont care how desensitised you are to your values and morals but soon as somone is harmed pyscholgically or physically then your belife system is obviously screwed up.

I keep raising points but a lot of it is not being answered here, I sincerely want to know for those like cat who believe that " there are kids who've had sexual relations with parents who don't feel violated and mollested." and "that someone who sexes with their kid is somehow more evil than the rest of us. That just doesn't work for me."

My specific question is in regards to those who molest their own children and violate them by sharing pictures and videos of them.....would those parents want to be be treated in the same manner by their own parents ?

The answer to that makes the difference.