I'm not generally attracted to women, but there are exceptions, I've met a few over the years that probably would have been excellent girlfriend/wife material, I liked them very much, but never made a move for what seemed good reasons (not feeling ready emotionally/financially/growing-up issues and the like).

I've also been extremely attracted to some guys here and there, but I'm not gay/bi as far as anyone who knows me is concerned (except for my sister and parents), and I don't ever care to make it a reality, never been with one, so I guess I'm just waiting till I'm ready to 'be' with a woman and marry and all that. There are a couple of girls I kick myself for letting go, but I believe eventually I'll find the right one and all this 'silly' business will be part of my past. I just hope I'm not deceiving myself.

But, come to think of it, I guess I'm 'open' to all. I'll love a person whether they're Man, Woman or Boy. I just care about the PERSON, not their sex or age (unless they're MUCH older than me, I suppose, I'm [edit]!). But I only believe I'm 'sanctioned' buy God to have sexual contact with a woman, so that's what I'll stick to (still a virgin though).

The YF is probably something I had to go through to learn something important I needed (and did, I hope!). It only happened once and I'm not really 'looking' for another one, still miss my old one terribly though, that's the main reason I hang around here.

[do you really want to give away such personal information?-Gs]