ccc, you've read my mind. I have been planning to post on this very same subject for a couple of days now but haven't found the time to put my thoughts in order. Well, now I don't have :)

I was also supposed to write about how annoying it is get 'boxed', that is, labelled. Oh, so you're gay, and that's all you'll ever be. Or! Oh, so you're woman, and you are there for this and this. But it seems you've already got a wide variety of answers, from Cat's static view to gakz and Eldad's less predefined.

As for myself, I have both masculine and feminine characteristics and I can feel sexual attraction to both genders of most any age. But boys are The Thing by far! And I hope that'll never completely change.


Dwain!